Survey Results (Sep-Oct 2019)
The latest Wonder Wall survey asked gay men a whole new set of questions, many of which were based on user submissions from the previous month. Take a peek into the minds of the men all around you and see if you feel the same. You can check out the new survey for November here!

Gay, Male, < 35 y.o.

AUS, EUR, USA
Should the idea of there being a ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ be phased out?
Are you in an open relationship?
Do you plan on using a surrogate mother to have a biological child one day?
Do younger gay men generally appreciate what older gay men went through during the fight for social equality?
Is there another gay person in your family?
Is your family mostly comfortable with your sexuality most of the time?
Have you ever met a girl that made you question your sexuality?
Are you scared to be over 60 and single?
If you could snap your fingers and become straight, would you?
Do gay men have a lot in common with straight men?

Gay, Male, > 35 y.o.

AUS, EUR, USA
Should the idea of there being a ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ be phased out?
Are you in an open relationship?
Do you plan on using a surrogate mother to have a biological child one day?
Do younger gay men generally appreciate what older gay men went through during the fight for social equality?
Is there another gay person in your family?
Is your family mostly comfortable with your sexuality most of the time?
Have you ever met a girl that made you question your sexuality?
Are you scared to be over 60 and single?
If you could snap your fingers and become straight, would you?
Do gay men have a lot in common with straight men?
Discussion
Cross-generationally there was a significant difference in the response to Q3 (Do you plan on using a surrogate mother to have a biological child one day?). This might suggest that either the younger generation is open to a new kind of homosexual family unit, or simply that the older generation may be past the point of wanting to introduce children into their life simply based on where they're at in life.
Other significant figures included:
- There's a 50/50 split when it comes to removing the labels of 'top' and 'bottom'
- Around 50% of respondents know another gay person in their family
- 88% don't have any issues with their family most of the time
- Most gay men wouldn't become straight if it were possible

Nathan Short
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Younger gay men may be more open to the idea of a new type of homosexual family unit.
The families of most gay men are ok with their sexuality most of the time.
Most gay men wouldn't become straight if it were possible.
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