80% of gay men wouldn't go straight if they could

Nov 4, 2019
Nathan Short
32
y.o.
Sydney, Australia
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Survey Results (Sep-Oct 2019)

The latest Wonder Wall survey asked gay men a whole new set of questions, many of which were based on user submissions from the previous month. Take a peek into the minds of the men all around you and see if you feel the same. You can check out the new survey for November here!

Should the idea of there being a ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ be phased out?
YES
MANNERISMS
50%
FRIENDS
NO
50%
Are you in an open relationship?
YES
5%
NO
95%
Do you plan on using a surrogate mother to have a biological child one day?
YES
GRINDR
41%
NO
TINDER
59%
Do younger gay men generally appreciate what older gay men went through during the fight for social equality?
YES
43%
NO
57%
Is there another gay person in your family?
YES
42%
NO
58%
Is your family mostly comfortable with your sexuality most of the time?
YES
86%
NO
14%
Have you ever met a girl that made you question your sexuality?
YES
48%
NO
52%
Are you scared to be over 60 and single?
YES
58%
NO
42%
If you could snap your fingers and become straight, would you?
YES
22%
NO
78%
Do gay men have a lot in common with straight men?
YES
74%
NO
26%
BACK
Should the idea of there being a ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ be phased out?
YES
MANNERISMS
40%
NO
FRIENDS
60%
Are you in an open relationship?
YES
12%
NO
88%
Do you plan on using a surrogate mother to have a biological child one day?
GRINDR
Yes
19%
OTHER
No
81%
Do younger gay men generally appreciate what older gay men went through during the fight for social equality?
Yes
18%
No
82%
Is there another gay person in your family?
Yes
42%
No
58%
Is your family mostly comfortable with your sexuality most of the time?
Yes
90%
No
10%
Have you ever met a girl that made you question your sexuality?
Yes
51%
No
49%
Are you scared to be over 60 and single?
Yes
36%
No
64%
If you could snap your fingers and become straight, would you?
Yes
18%
No
82%
Do gay men have a lot in common with straight men?
Yes
69%
No
31%
BACK

Discussion

Cross-generationally there was a significant difference in the response to Q3 (Do you plan on using a surrogate mother to have a biological child one day?). This might suggest that either the younger generation is open to a new kind of homosexual family unit, or simply that the older generation may be past the point of wanting to introduce children into their life simply based on where they're at in life.

Other significant figures included:

References

Nathan Short
32
y.o.
Sydney, Australia
CONTACT

Nathan helps people to express themselves at home, at school, and in the workplace, all around the world. He's passionate about thinking, and engages in it regularly. He's not overly fond of writing in the third person though. It's weird. Connect with him on Facebook to continue the conversation, make a video at colourbeat.com, or even share a dance with him at movewithcolour.com!

What I learned...
  1. Younger gay men may be more open to the idea of a new type of homosexual family unit.

  2. The families of most gay men are ok with their sexuality most of the time.

  3. Most gay men wouldn't become straight if it were possible.

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